8 Ways to Respond to an Apology Better Than Just Saying “It’s Okay”

We came across an article in TIME about accepting apologies. I think it’s a great way to handle apologies rather than just accepting them and then going back to the same old cycle. This is because not all apologies are created equal. Sometimes, simply saying “it’s okay” may not be what you really need. So, let’s take a look at some ways to แทงบอล UFABET ราคาดีที่สุด ไม่มีขั้นต่ำ accept an apology in a more genuine and constructive way. 

1. “Thank you for admitting your mistake without making excuses.”

A true apology should state exactly what you are apologizing for, explain without making excuses, express remorse, and promise not to do it again. If you are happy with the apology, tell him directly what you particularly appreciated. This is a great encouragement for the future.

2. “I understand that you are trying to apologize, but I still need a little more time.”

When responding to an apology you’re not ready to accept, try to strike a balance between sincerity and kindness. Try using “I” statements that focus on your own feelings instead of blaming others, such as “I’m still hurt by what happened” rather than “You hurt me.”

3. “Let’s talk about what happened.”

Sometimes you don’t feel comfortable accepting an apology until you have a clear conversation. Often, we have different understandings of a situation. You may see it one way, but the other person means something else. Talking things out can help you both understand each other better.

4. “Please apologize to me when you really feel like apologizing to me.”

A fake or forced apology won’t help. If you feel like he’s not sincere, it’s better to just say no or say “That doesn’t sound like a sincere apology.” 

5. “I think you may not understand how much it hurts me.”

If the person apologizing doesn’t understand your pain, be honest with them. Start by saying that you understand they want to end things, but you can’t do that until they understand how what they did affected you. 

6. “Honestly, waiting this long for an apology is bad.”

Apologies for being late make you feel frustrated, angry, and sad. Tell your friend or partner how the long wait makes you feel. Be sincere but not accusatory, so the conversation is more constructive. 

7. “I’ve heard the words, but I want to see change too.”

An apology must be followed by action. Tell your friend directly what you would like him or her to do to rebuild trust. Relationships are built on trust and a sense of security. Repairing a relationship must include these things.

8. “Thank you. Words like that make me feel safe.”

When you receive a masterful apology that makes you feel secure in your relationship, don’t forget to praise them. Tell your loved one how happy you are to be able to express your feelings so openly, and add, “If ever the roles were reversed, I’d do the same.” There will likely be many times in life when you’ll need to apologize.